Don’t let any religious figure change who you are on the inside. Never feel like you should act a certain way to be accepted.
Don’t change for religion
The only changes you should make are to be a better person (e.g.- be nicer to friends / family, don’t get angry, volunteer more, etc). But don’t feel pressured to change your dress or mannerisms or finances for religion.
Healthy Discernment
Actions speak louder than words
Look at what people do and not just a what they say. Do people volunteer, are they kind, do they help others?
Know your time and money belong to you
You do not have to give any of your time or money to those who ask. If you feel pressured, walk away.
Healthy Tolerance
Acknowledge that many people have good intentions
Most people say / do what they were taught. Very few people read their religion’s entire holy book or question things. You may not agree with people, but acknowledge most are trying to be good people. Avoid arguments with people
Do not make statements that convey one party is right while another is wrong. Many feuds are avoided by phrasing things like, “I believe” or “I respect your opinion.”
Healthy Spirituality
Connect to the outdoors and nature
Not everyone can find God in a building. Go hiking, smell the flowers, climb a mountain, and admire the majesty of creation.
Love yourself
Believe that God loves you and accepts you. While we can all strive to be better people, do not feel the need to prove your goodness to God. Strive for excellence but also be humble.
Healthy Friendships
Focus on the commonality
While you may not subscribe to all of someone’s theology, you can focus on the common ground. Excellent topics of common ground are kindness, peace, and justice.
Be a light in the world
Listen to others, help animals, make purchases that help the world, and recycle. Be known as that one person who is walking the walk.
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