This is one of the only books I am aware of that goes into such detail on the topic of women in Judaism. While it focuses primarily on Orthodox Judaism, the author is transparent about how she wasn't raised as an "expert" but rather learned more on her own as she grew up. This, coupled with the simple prose that makes even the most perplexing topics understandable, makes for a pleasant experience where the reader can learn while not feeling embarrassed for their lack of knowledge. No controversial topic is skipped over as the author explains mixed seating, modest dress codes, divorce, and even the prayer men say thanking G-d for "not making me a woman". Aiken aims to educate readers on women's unique role in Judaism, which is not less-than or subservient to men. While women have different roles than men, they are equal in the sense that they are beloved by G-d and have a purpose in life. Of particular interest that I learned was why women are not obligated to go to synagogue (although they are most certainly encouraged to do so), how exclusivity only begins at marriage, and how women are not obligated to marry (as opposed to men). This was a refreshing read that I highly recommend. Whether you want to be an Orthodox Jew or your own brand of Modern Orthodox Jew, you will certainly learn a lot about women in Judaism. Enjoy!
