This book is all about how to get out into the dating world and do it successfully. While there are not statistics on scientifically proven methods, the advice given in this book makes very much sense to me. There is an emphasis on healing emotional wounds and negative self talk that prevents people from dating in a healthy manner. There is discussion around people who attract poor partners or do not attract good partners because they have low self-esteem and self-limiting beliefs. The author encourages readers to get out of the house (unless they want to marry the mailman!), get friends, get hobbies, and go out with anyone at least once. The point of dating is go have fun, enhance one's social skills, and get to know what one wants vs not wants. The point of dating isn't to find a marriage partner, and that sort of thinking leads to stress and anxiety. Just be yourself, love yourself, and enjoy dating for the sake of dating itself. Don't overthink things, stay positive, and you may just find your love!
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