This is by far one of the most influential books I have ever written. It goes into the moral, ethical, and philosophical arguments against "bad speech". Interestingly enough, this is not just limited to gossip and rumors but also to positive speech. Speaking to highly of others can incite jealousy in others and cause harm. As Telushkin points out, if G-d had not spoken so highly of Job (in the famous biblical Book of Job), Job likely would have been spared much misfortune from his jealous accuser. The book also does an excellent job of analyzing key relationships such as those between family, friends, and business colleagues. There is a great deal of emphasis on speaking kindly to children, which I much appreciated. The book also references the biblical account of King David and Queen Micah. After a brief falling out where harsh words were exchanged, their relationship never healed. Telushkin warns couples not to end up like that. The topic of lying is also addressed in terms of when it is permissible to lie. Jewish law that permits lying to save a life is contrasted with other mainstream religions that prohibit lying at all costs. Overall, this is a fascinating read that can do any person a great deal of good.
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